Jessica & Tom — A Heartfelt Vineyard Wedding with Barn Vibes, Beer Donkeys, and Pure Magic

Some weddings stay with you—not just because of how they looked, but because of how they felt. Jessica and Tom’s wedding was one of those days. From the very first email Jessica sent, I felt an instant connection. Her date and venue weren’t even locked in yet, but she was so thoughtful and flexible—working around my schedule to make sure I could be there. A year later, I’m still so grateful she did, because this wedding was absolutely breathtaking in every way.

Getting Ready in Wine Country

The day began at a cozy Airbnb tucked away near the venue, where the energy was calm, joyful, and full of anticipation. Jessica got ready surrounded by her people, and there was this quiet excitement in the air that set the tone for everything that followed. The way she lit up during her first look with Tom was one of those moments I’ll never forget—tender, real, and full of emotion.

Vows in the Vineyards

Their ceremony was set among the rolling vineyards of Sonoma—golden light, soft breezes, and the kind of peaceful beauty that California wine country does so well. The setting was picturesque, but it was the emotion in the air that made it unforgettable. Their vows, their laughter, the way they held hands as they walked back down the aisle—it was the kind of ceremony that reminds you why you love love.

Beer Donkeys, Ice Cream, and a Transformed Barn

From there, guests made their way to the reception—held inside a barn that started as a blank slate and became something truly magical. Every corner was transformed with intention and care, from top to bottom. Think twinkle lights, lush florals, and design details that reflected Jessica and Tom’s personalities to a T.

And then came the fun: yes, there were beer donkeys delivering drinks (a total hit), and an adorable ice cream cart for dessert. These whimsical touches brought so much personality and joy to the day—it felt less like a formal event and more like a big, beautiful celebration with all the best people.

A Party to Remember (and One for the Books)

The night ended with dancing, laughter, and that warm, glowy feeling you get when you’re surrounded by people who love you. And as if the day wasn’t already perfect enough, it was later featured in Vanity Fair and Here Comes the Guide—a testament to the beauty and uniqueness of every little detail.

To Jessica & Tom: Thank you for trusting me with your day. From the very first email to the final sparkler exit, it was an absolute honor to witness and capture your love story. Your day was stunning, but more than that—it was meaningful, joyful, and so full of heart. Here’s to more donkeys, more scoops, and a lifetime of adventure ahead.